Back to School, Already?

I can’t believe the summer is coming to an end.  I’ve ironed all the uniform shirts we bought eight weeks ago, and am trying to figure out what I will make for my son’s first lunch at school. I’ve checked the bus route and schedule, and looked ahead to the end of the month to see if I will be able to manage after-school responsibilities on my own, or if I’ll have to ask for help. It’s astounding how much planning has to go into the annual ritual of returning to school. 

I’ve even had to decline invitations for visits that are long overdue.  After work and family, there is only so much time left. I hate to say no to the fun stuff, but I’ve learned from experience that filling the calendar isn’t always the best choice for me. I like white space on any page that I’m reading; apparently that extends to my calendar as well. There is no doubt that while I may not have a scheduled task or event, inevitably, the time will be used up.

So, if you find yourself feeling frenzied as the oh-so-familiar responsibilities of the school year consume your time, remember these few tips:

1.       It’s okay to say “no”.  You will feel better if you leave yourself some time to deal with the other things in your life – or just take time for yourself.  

2.       Plan meals ahead of time.  Meal planning is a pain at the best of times.  I absolutely hate it, but I do believe it’s a necessary evil.  I always feel better when the dinner hour approaches and I have a plan of attack.  

3.       If you’re feeling overwhelmed, say so.  You’re not alone. Chances are, someone will be happy to help you out.